well finally everything is rectify, he has finally told us his problem. and they have let me see the light that he had a transition of character. but of course he is still the one we know.
people at some point of time, would want to just let go everything. go wild, drunk ourself in sorrow and what not, cos personally when my ex left me I did exactly the same thing. maybe I was in it for a short time but some take a longer time to recover. but as long as you know when to pick yourself up and carry on then I think that perfectly alright. just like the hippy culture. where people just wake up 10 years into the culture, take a bath, cut their hair and dress up to look for job.